Music Monday: No More Christmas Songs

Thanksgiving has come and gone, which means that homes and storefronts across the nation have switched out their turkeys and pilgrims for mistletoe and Christmas trees. By some unwritten law, it also means that everyone on Earth is allowed to play nothing but Christmas songs for the next 30 days.

Personally, we’re ready for some of these holiday music traditions to expire. For Music Monday, we wanted to offer an alternate soundtrack to the endless renditions of “Baby It’s Cold Outside” and “Jingle Bells” that will undoubtedly dominate the airwaves until the year’s end.

In formal protest to the nonstop airplay of Mariah Carey’s “All I Want For Christmas Is You,” we put together a Spotify playlist of the songs we’d rather listen to.

Through the Front Door: Let’s talk Christmas trees.

If you’re waltzing through your home, literally giddy, it’s probably the Christmas season. It’s the one time of year when you can turn your home into an extravaganza of lights, ribbons and sparkle. You can indulge to your hearts delight, more is certainly better this time of year and excess is eagerly welcome. My children used to say if they stood still long enough while I was on a whirlwind of Christmas decorating, that I would decorate them! I firmly believe they both would have been stunning with wreaths around their necks—such Scrooges those two! Anyway, let’s talk Christmas trees, usually the focus of your design talents and the centerpiece of your home for the holidays!

Adopting a German Tradition

Where did this lovely interior element come to us from? The first documented Christmas tree in the United States was in Pennsylvania in the 1830s. At the time, people who lived among German immigrants in Pennsylvania began to enjoy some German traditions, including the Christmas tree. When the telegraph was invented, news spread about the enchantment of the of Christmas tree and it become part of the American holiday. By the 1850s, having a Christmas tree was very fashionable on the East Coast. In fact, in 1851, Mark Carr brought trees from the Catskills to the streets of New York City and opened the country’s very first Christmas tree lot.

By the 1870s hand blown glass ornaments crafted in Lauscha, Germany, were being imported from Britain, and they rapidly became a status symbol. The more glass ornaments you displayed, the higher your status and the better to showcase your wealth. They are still loved and enjoyed to this day since manufacturing has never stopped. By the 1880s, these ornaments were being imported and could be purchased at the dime store, F.W. Woolworth. How delightful!

Soon after came the invention of electric Christmas tree lights to take the place of a significant home fire hazard: candles affixed to tree branches. In 1923, President Calvin Coolidge introduced the first national Christmas tree and installed it on the lawn of the White House. Here ends my history lesson. Now let’s talk Christmas trees in the 21st century, shall we?

Perfect Tree Placement

For many people, placing the Christmas tree in your home is one of the most anticipated events of the year! Finding just the right location to truly honor the tree deserves serious consideration. I bet most of you are like me in this respect: You could be shopping for a new home in July on a sweltering 105 degree Kansas day and you will think out loud, “Where can we put the Christmas tree in this house?” The joy this tradition brings to our family is significant. Childhood memories of the family Christmas tree can most certainly bring a spontaneous smile. My mother-in-law smiles every time she shares that her family decorated their tree on Christmas Eve when she was a child. These are delicious memories, regardless of your age!

One practical placement tip: If the tree is positioned in a corner so that only about two-thirds of the tree actually gets decorated, be mindful of the weight imbalance. I’ve heard horror stories of trees that went down—taking family heirloom decorations with it—and the loss of all those memories is heartbreaking. Here is a trick I came up to keep this from happening. Attach wire to the top of the tree trunk at two points and then secure the wires to each wall with nails, screws or hooks. This braces the tree and keeps it from toppling over. Take a sponge brush and paint the wire and nails, screws or hooks the same as your wall color for a support system that is magically undetectable!

Step-by-Step Guide to Decorating

Create an amazing tree, just like a pro, by following this simple order for placing decorations on the tree:

Plump: If you are using an artificial tree, first you must plump it. Please don’t just pull the tree out of its box after a year’s rest, pop it in a stand and decorate it. No, no, Gorgeous you must pull down every branch and reposition it from top to bottom! Convince the world this beautiful spruce is alive and well. Sorry, but this is an absolute must! So plump, plump, plump my dear!

Lights: When placing the lights on the Christmas tree plug all your Christmas tree lights into a power strip with a button you can step on to turn them on or off so you don’t have to crawl under the tree. Easy-peasy! Or even a light strip with a timer, making the task even easier!

Garlands: It’s time to adorn the tree with garlands. This would be strings of glass beads, pearls, strung popcorn and cranberries, metallic garland, etc. Start at the top of the tree and swag you way done, tuck the finishing end into the tree.

The Generic Balls: Next, hang your plain balls. Hang the ones without scratches near the ends of the branches, and tuck any older, seen a few Christmas’ balls deep into the tree near the trunk. This gives your tree a full, lush and well-dressed look! This year, maybe tie narrow pieces of ribbon on the ornaments that would typically hang from hooks—much prettier!

The Decorative Ornaments: Once the generic balls are up, move on to all those special ornaments such as the nativity scene, angels, Santa, reindeer and snowmen. Once again, use ribbons—so very elegant!

Ribbon: Next, twist, tuck, turn, and drape ribbon on the tree. I find starting at the top and working my way to the bottom works the best! Wired ribbon does this brilliantly and is easily found in a variety of stores.

Icicles: Toss silver or gold foil icicles on the branches for the old-fashioned glitz of days gone by! Use tons of it or opt for a restrained placement here and there. It’s completely up to you gorgeous, even if you prefer none at all.

Pinecones: Consider tucking some pinecones into the branches. The cinnamon-scented ones are a delightful touch if your family can handle the fragrance, and huge sugar cones can be lovely as well, a touch of nature.

The Tree Topper: It’s time for that special star, angel, or even wonderful bow at the top. The scale of the bow will depend on the size of the tree—huge tree, huge bow! Hey, it’s Christmas—bigger is better at this time of year! Use two bows, one for each side, so it looks full and breathtaking. (One bow looks like the tree is missing half its topper!)

The Tree Skirt: Conceal those light cords and the base of the tree with a skirt. Before you add this final detail, plump some plastic trash bags around the base of the tree for volume and to protect gifts from water if you’re using a real tree. Feel free to look beyond the classic tree skirt. Try a vintage tablecloth, yards of felt (perhaps in a couple of colors), yards of Christmas fabric or burlap, which is finding its way into incredibly chic designs lately.

And there you go, a Christmas tree that is spectacular from top to bottom!

Lighting Tips

To create the best experience—for both the installer and viewer of the lights, follow these tips:

Number: For best results, plan on 100 mini-lights per foot of height of the Christmas tree. For example, the rule of thumb for a 7 foot tree is 700 lights.

Color: For a wonderful rich glow from within the tree, tuck some canary yellow lights up and down the trunk. You can use these in addition to the 100 lights per foot—yes, your lumens just went up! (What can I say, I am the daughter of an electrical contractor, the late great Stanley Robinson! Lumens, Dad, I’m talking lumens here!)

Age: Every year it is best to start with fresh lights. Having a string burn out before your big holiday party will bring you to tears. (Plus, you won’t have to untangle last year’s mess—just donate them! Or, tuck those old lights into places where they can be replaced without a lot of effort.)

Extensions: When plugging the string of lights together, follow the manufacturer’s guidelines regarding how many strings you can join. This is one of those live-and-learn lessons: You go beyond the suggestion and the lights flutter and go out. If this happens on a completed tree, finding the strand of lights that is the culprit is virtually impossible. Crying won’t fix it, but following guidelines will prevent it.

Power: Use a power strip and extension cords in brown or green so the color blends in when wound through the tree.

Funny story involving my husband: While living in Denver, we resided in a high rise for a time. One year I volunteered to decorate the building’ lobby. As I was completing my holiday display around midnight, my husband came down from our unit to help me finish and kindly offered to vacuum for me! The tree—a whopping 12 footer—was decked out in a million mini-lights, wound up, down and all around the tree. As I was picking up, I noticed the lights flutter and blink a few times and then go dark. My husband looked like a deer in the headlights! “Please tell me you did not plug that vacuum into the Christmas-light socket!” I exclaimed without hope. Word of advice: Christmas light cords cannot be used as extension cords!

Presentation

Maybe this year you decide to place a wonderful petit fresh Christmas tree in your kitchen. The fragrance is absolutely breath taking. Recently, you had a visit with your kitchen, spruced it up, and it has become a delightful primitive but friendly place to cook and have a good long visit with a dear friend. To complement the space, this precious little tree must have that same inviting personality. Envision a 1940s Christmas tablecloth wrapped around the bottom. Then, for decorations, some soup cans (labels removed) turned into little tin buckets and hung by red-and-white checked ribbons. I am squealing with delight here, my dear friends. Now fill those buckets with striped candy canes of red/white and green/white. Use an assortment of ornaments that say kitchen: Maybe a cup of tea, Mrs. Santa at her stove, ham and eggs on a plate. Yes, you can find these, I swear to you! String some popcorn, drape it around and then finish it off with cookie cutters hung with your enchanting checked ribbon! A cup of hot chocolate never tasted as delicious as in the presence of this little darling.

Packages

For your main tree, placing packages at the foot is an absolute must. I do have suggestions for this (oh, I always have suggestions!). First, tuck larger packages into a bin meant for firewood or maybe a copper boiler or a wooden crate. Think about using a collection of baskets in an assortment of sizes and place some of the packages in them. Adorn the baskets with some spruce and bows. Or, maybe line a wonderful old galvanized washtub with a wool tartan blanket for a Classic Kansas Christmas and position the packages in the tub. Or, an old sled placed at the bottom of tree to stack packages on says Currier and Ives! An interesting chair placed alongside the tree with packages stacked three high could be charming. Tie a wreath to the back of the chair for a new spot for those “stockings hung with care,” especially if you don’t have a fireplace. My point is this: It is more visually appealing to place packages in collections and make sure the base of the tree is as significant as the top of the tree!

Great Gift Wrap

Your fabulously decorated tree, placed in the perfect spot, deserve stunning packages, too. First, limit yourself to three different papers and maybe two different types of ribbon. If you want that classic prairie affair look, try brown paper, maybe a solid red paper and a playful plaid for a timeless and celebratory combination. Choose a pleasingly simple ribbon such as raffia in natural color along with a rich Christmas green grosgrain tied in a simple bow. Consider tying peppermint sticks to the packages, provided you can keep the dogs, cats and kids from indulging. If you prefer a sophisticated look, consider this delightful combination: white pearlized paper, a crisp white paper with opulent gold Christmas trees dancing across it, and an emerald green and brilliant white stripe. Absolutely smashing! Tie it all up with red satin ribbon and gold twine! Well-dressed packages!

Allow yourself to be a bit childish to truly experience the magic of Christmas. Let that little kid inside of you come to visit this holiday. I assure you that being playful has its rewards. So take a few deep breathes and say, “This is the only Christmas I get in the year 2012, and by gosh I am going to have a splendid time!” Please make sure to follow “Through the Front Door” the month of December as we visit about: Decorating the Mantel!, Tantalizing the Senses!, Your Holiday Table!

The Facts about Santa Clause

Santa Clause is a mysterious figure in the traditional European legend. It is said he gives presents to kids from door to door on the Christmas Eve every year. Santa Clause climbs into the chimney of every home and puts presents into the socks of children by their beds or under the Christmas tree nearby the fireplace. The stereotype of Santa Clause is an old man with long white beard in red hat and coat. People in different cultural background interpret his image in different ways. However, the model of Santa Clause is usually with dirty clothes.

In many European counties and the USA, the toys of Santa Clause are deliberately made in dirty clothes. The reason is that Santa Clause climbs out of the chimney and naturally dirties his clothes. The cultural awareness makes the important festival full of charms. Moreover, many countries localize Christmas by adding new elements. For example, in Germany, Santa Clause roams over the towns in a two-wheeled vehicle rather than a sleigh pulled by reindeer. He puts nuts and apples into the shoes rather than socks of children. In order to make their kids obedient, many parents claim that good boys or girls are able to receive more presents from Santa Clause while bad ones will receive a whip punishment. It is a very interesting phenomenon that Christmas prevails over in many European countries. In the eyes of western people, the beneficent Santa Clause brings the blessing of god which means a promising new year.

Christmas holiday comes!

Every year at the beginning of the holiday season I tell myself I am going to enjoy this year…

But somehow the season proves itself to be stressful and just beyond my enjoyment meter. It’s a beast all its own.

Why does it seem that others are able to gather up the holiday and carry it out like Martha Stewart? Why can’t I be like that?

I flat out had to admit that it is just not my favorite time of the year. Does that make me a bad person? And did I forget to mention I am a Christian? This is the time to celebrate Jesus’ birth. Does that make me a bad Christian? Ouch! I hope not.

Even my older son told me last year, “Mom, you never really were that happy around the holiday time.” He was right. I did try to hide it, but clearly I was not successful.

My daughter adds, “Mom, you hate Christmas,” very nonchalantly.

Okay, that cements it…I’m a terrible person!

With each holiday season come expectations. Maybe the expectations are created in my own head, but I definitely feel expectations. I try to make everyone happy and doing so seems to elude me each year. There is never enough money. There is never enough time. There is never enough of me to go around.

I want to make everyone happy. That’s my target every year, and I fail every year.

So, this year I am going to try and make me happy. I have failed miserably at trying to please everyone—heaping stress upon stress on myself—and this year I am taking the heap off!

Is it possible in having a bit more “self care” I will be able to please one and all? Nah! But who knows, maybe my odds are better than last year.

And that my friends, is what I am shooting for. Come on Santa, bring me a better track record!

All I want for Christmas is less stress! Anyone willing to bet on me? I’m not Rachel Ray, I’m not crafty, I don’t like most Christmas music, and I am very bad at keeping picture albums…and I love my family with my whole heart.

Could it be that I have been “holiday challenged” because I forgot about taking care of me? Perhaps, as I find my own joy in the season it will spill over and some of my “holiday bliss” will rub off me and on to them. What do I have to lose? At this point I can only go up.

I may even get some Christmas stockings to hang over the fireplace for my family…ah yeah, we don’t have any. I told you I was a terrible person.

The Art Of Making Christmas Cookies

Every year around the Holiday Season, my family makes Christmas cookies. Everything from gingerbread men and gingerbread houses, to sugar cookie angels and Christmas trees, etc. It’s actually a very serious tradition and I love doing it every year. I don’t bake anything…that would be a mess. I just decorate – which is still a mess – but it is a ton of fun!

Now, we haven’t made any yet this year. It’s just too early. Won’t do it for a couple of more weeks, but I’ve been getting in the ‘Christmas Spirit’ and my anticipation for Christmas decorations, music and cookies is growing. I was going to do another NaNoWriMo update today, but I haven’t written anything since the last NaNoWriMo post, so I need a filler.

It is a fun filler, though, as I have some pictures to share from last year’s Christmas Cookie Annual Event. This is why decorating Christmas cookies is so fun at my house:

I think if I ever need to see a therapist, I will hide these pictures and deny their existence.

Well, I have one last picture. Yesterday, I went with my parents to the Festival of Trees in Saskatoon. It’s a charity event where people design and decorate Christmas Trees and then donate them to be put on display and up for auction. You just walk around and look at Christmas Trees. Part of your entrance fee goes to the museum, where the Festival is held, and the other part is donated to the Hospital, so even if you don’t buy a tree (because some of them are very expensive) you still get to donate some money through your ticket price.

It’s really fun because I love Christmas, and so does my family. They usually have live bands playing Christmas music and there is also a Gingerbread House auction and some of the houses are AMAZING. I apologize for not taking any pictures to show you. Anyways, the reason I’m tell you all of this is because I bought a gingerbread man cookie at the Festival.

After my mom pointed out to me just what exactly it looked like, I had a little bit of trouble eating the rest of the cookie.

Well I think I touched bases on all things cookies. That’s all you’re getting from me ce soir! Thanks for reading and viewing!

this post was reblogged from wlouison’blog (#) .